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I found this part the most useful as it looks at how you view yourself, other people and life in general. Then I managed to make loads of notes and come to I had mixed views on the previous book, Unfu*k Yourself, and about a third of the way through the latest one I was still unsure if this was a series I'd get much out of. Mostly so far I'd just felt that I'd been shouted at. Then we get to the 3 Saboteurs. I know I'm guilty of self sabotage but have to work out exactly what I'm doing and why.
I found this part the most useful as it looks at how you view yourself, other people and life in general. Then I managed to make loads of notes and come to a few resolutions. There's no magic answers in the book but a few good pointers as to how to start taking control and move forward without the sabotage.
The author is described as having a no nonsense point of view but I still ended the book feeling like I'd had the telling off my mother never gave me however I got a really good starting point for how to fix something that has been troubling me. ...more
This is the second book of the series, well, the first was honest, simple but this went like too far ahead.
Self development doesn't mean you gotta be Jeff Bezos, right ?
I feel disappointed cause the last book had me for real. Too complicated for me ?! No, I think not.
This is the second book of the series, well, the first was honest, simple but this went like too far ahead.
Self development doesn't mean you gotta be Jeff Bezos, right ?
I feel disappointed cause the last book had me for real. ...more
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I like this book, but it just wasn't something that I haven't heard before. Just the regular recycled stuff in other motivational books. If you know me, I have a lot of experience with this type of writing style and I have a large group of book dedicated to this genre of self improvement and development. So I tell nothing but the truth.
However, if you are looking for a short motivational read, this might do you some good. Here you'll learn that your predictions about yourself, other people and life in general are, indeed, holding you back from living the life that you want.
Gary speak about the three saboteurs that are affecting all people today.
1. Conclusions of Yourself
2. Conclusions about other people
3. Conclusions about Life
What I did like about this book was that he was straightforward and wasn't giving you the helping hand and quick fix that would make your life ultimately better in a week or month. He clearly let you know that this is a life journey and that you are here to learn from your mistakes, but that your mistakes and past are not your final ruling. You can still become what you want through hard work and looking forward to the future.
...moreGenuinely enjoyed that part of it. But aside from the shock and awe of how Bishop breaks rank, I can't say it was a revelation to me. But I devoured it in a few days which is hard for
As far as the genre goes, this book was incredibly refreshing. Not only does he say "the universe does not have your back," but he also tells you all the shit you do or don't do in your life is your own fault. I mean, them's fightin' words in the world of self help. How dare he tell people they're their own problem?Genuinely enjoyed that part of it. But aside from the shock and awe of how Bishop breaks rank, I can't say it was a revelation to me. But I devoured it in a few days which is hard for me to do with a printed book lately, so there's that. Highly recommend for people who keep "falling off the wagon" and are sick of their own bullshit.
...moreInstead, this book wants you
Full disclosure here... I have read A LOT of self-help books over the years. Here's what makes this one stand out from the rest - The fact that you can't change the past and in constantly trying to model your present/future in a change from your past isn't realistic. If you are operating from a place of "I want a future that doesn't include [insert whatever thing from the past that you are trying to overcome]", then you are inevitably setting yourself up for failure.Instead, this book wants you to identify the things you have come to believe about yourself, people, and life. Once you understand those things then it's time to ACCEPT them. At that point, you can look to your future for what you will do in your present to get you there.
Gary John Bishop pulls in a lot of references to philosophers and psychologists that are insightful. Through his writing, he guides the reader to dig deep and identify the "truths" they carry around in life.
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book and look forward to reading again as I unpack the things I have convinced myself are truth rather than simply my perspective.
...moreGary John Bishop has some great information.
His intention is to teach one to: "Stare your own truths in your face."
"Heidegger"
The most thought-provoking thing in our thought-provoking time is that we are still not thinking."Heidegger"
...more"That's what we call a life. Wanting new; addicted to the familiar." -
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This book basically speaks to you in a very straightforward
"That's what we call a life. Wanting new; addicted to the familiar." -
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This book basically speaks to you in a very straightforward way no sugarcoating about how you are stuck at life in a self destructive cycle by blaming you, your past, others and your life. A lot of the information that I have read weren't new necessarily to me. But the author's way of talking to you was good and his sarcasm made me laugh many times. The book explains to you what you are actually doing and what you shouldn't do, and what you should do but you are not doing… Some parts of the book made me feel embarrassed because how true they are. Truth has to be told… A lot of people want to change their lives but aren't willing to do a thing about it. What is the quality of your life if you lived it complaining, blaming and making excuses for being stuck where you are.. mentally, emotionally and physically? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This book is not a magical pill. If you are not willing to change your life by doing the work and what is necessary then there is no one can help you. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I'm generally not a fan of self motivation/help books. I read Bishop's previous book
Unfu*k Yourself, and while I found it entertaining, it didn't really do anything for me. When I heard the premise of Stop Doing That Sh*t, I was even more skeptical.It was not long after I started, however, that things began to click. What he said,
In Stop Doing That Sh*t Gary John Bishop tries to get to the heart of self-sabotaging behavior, by attempting to consciously access destructive sub-conscious beliefs.I'm generally not a fan of self motivation/help books. I read Bishop's previous book
Unfu*k Yourself, and while I found it entertaining, it didn't really do anything for me. When I heard the premise of Stop Doing That Sh*t, I was even more skeptical.It was not long after I started, however, that things began to click. What he said, although still sounding vaguely silly, made a lot of sense to me. It made me look back and consider some of the driving forces in my life, and how I was cycling through the same unproductive behaviors.
If you are looking for a new perspective that might help you break out of your rut, this may not be the book for you. Bishop's style is loud and somewhat abrasive. Not everyone enjoys being yelled at by an angry Scotsman. If, however, that doesn't bother you,
Stop Doing That Sh*t might be a helpful read. ...moreby Gary John Bishop
2019
Harper One
4.0 / 5.0
This book is an excellent resource to begin enriching your life by being honest, and humble about your own self. It is not for the sensitive or weak -of-heart. It is straight forward, in your face and unashamedly brash. I thought it was really harsh at first, until I realized he is trying to reach those that need a dose of reality that's severe enough to get those stubborn to see a severe e
Stop Doing That Sh*t:End Self-Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back.by Gary John Bishop
2019
Harper One
4.0 / 5.0
This book is an excellent resource to begin enriching your life by being honest, and humble about your own self. It is not for the sensitive or weak -of-heart. It is straight forward, in your face and unashamedly brash. I thought it was really harsh at first, until I realized he is trying to reach those that need a dose of reality that's severe enough to get those stubborn to see a severe example of reality to change. By forcing you to face full-on your own defeating behaviors and negative self-talk, you are forced to confront your own bullshit and illusion. Chapters 12 and 13 were the best, in my opinion.
Recommended for those brave enough to be 100% in the moment.....This will make you think.
Material was useful. A bit like Daniel's writings over the years. Useful. Familiar. Good.
I liked the sponge word picture.
Fast read.
I listened to the audiobook, which Gary John Bishop narrates, and read along with the hardcopy which is marked up for reference like crazy.
I'm about to dive into the next book in the series. This series won't be for everyone, but it hit the mark for me. Changing my life is all on me and now is the tim
I'm addicted to this series. Great takeaways and direct advice on what's holding you back and how to fix it. This is not your light and fluffy self-help and there's no sugar coating happening here.I listened to the audiobook, which Gary John Bishop narrates, and read along with the hardcopy which is marked up for reference like crazy.
I'm about to dive into the next book in the series. This series won't be for everyone, but it hit the mark for me. Changing my life is all on me and now is the time!
FULL REVIEW TO FOLLOW.
...moreYou want the dream life? Live life like you're going to get there and stop dragging the past around. No easy answers here so if that's what you want you ain't getting it, but if you enjoy a good "smarten up buttercup" this is your book!
Gary's experience and quick ascent to becoming a senior program director for one of the world's leading personal development organizations is proof that he is dedicated and committed to what is possible for every client and person he encounters. He doesn't claim perfection. He's been through life and doesn't sugar coat his folly. He uses his experience as both a human and a world class coach to mentor and coach people to raise the bar higher for what they once thought would be their greatest self.
Gary John Bishop is one of the leading Personal Development experts in the industry with a global reputation that has impacted tens of thousands of people worldwide. His "urban philosophy" approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has caused miraculous results for people in the quality and performance of their lives. He calls it like it is while being influenced by ontology, phenomenology and the philosophy of some of the world's greatest thinkers. You be inspired, unburdened and grounded. Working with Gary creates the space to be an altered version of you. The greatness you once imagined becomes a reality, only its bigger, better and more incredibly freeing than you dreamed it could be. His work life changing.
Gary is willing to say what needs to be said. His writing is a higher level experience and the benefits of his philosophies have touched lives worldwide.
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